Inspired Epiphany

If you're a WAHM, there will probably be some point where a relative, friend, or even a stranger will ask "so, when are you going to get a real job?" Those kinds of questions can hurt, especially when, in reality, you are working very hard. Here are some suggestions on how to deal with those insensitive comments.

The important thing to remember is that most people have no clue as to how many ways there are to make money from home. If they have never researched the subject, the only time they probably heard about someone working from home is from a report on the television about someone who, unfortunately, got scammed. However mean their words may sound, the person is probably just trying to protect you from getting hurt.

If the person asking you this question is someone that you do not see on a regular basis, you can just try to laugh off the question and change the subject. However, if the person is someone you are close to and have quite a bit of contact with, try to educate them about your business. Explain to them what it is that you do, how much you enjoy it, and why you chose to work at home versus working in a traditional job. Once your critic understands that working at home is a real option and that you are not involved in a scam, they will most likely be supportive of your decision. They may end up being a little jealous of you and wish they had the courage to leave their job and work from home, too!

There may be days when you feel like giving up. Don't give in to those feelings. Success is not found overnight. You are going to have to put in a lot of time and effort when it comes to building your business, but you CAN do it. It's ok to take a "mental health day" once in a while, but when that day is over, you need to get up and start working again.

Stay motivated by hanging up pictures of your kids near your computer or phone and writing down what you want to accomplish by working at home. Maybe you want to pay off credit card debt or save for retirement or buy the kids a pool. Whenever you feel discouraged - read what you wrote down or look at the pictures of your kids. It will inspire you to keep working!

Most importantly, never let anyone make you feel "less worthy" because you work from home. It doesn't matter if you work on the highest level of the tallest building or if you work on card table in your living room - you are still a working mom, you are contributing to your family, and you are a wonderful role model to your children. By keeping your confidence high, you will be more successful in all aspects of your life.